Christmas Season

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

So, first let this post serve as a barometer for how quick your internet is working because if this post loads faster than thirty-five minutes, I'm going to say that you have some high speed internet.  Hahhaa, this thing is packed with photos, so sorry in advance.

We hold off on Christmas as much as we can until December 1st.  We jump feet first into Halloween and thoroughly celebrate Thanksgiving and then pump the brakes as much as possible until officially opening the Christmas season.  Because once that door is opened, yeesh, the fun (and wild) don't stop all the way until January 7th.

This year, we got in a little Pre-Christmas fun starting even before Thanksgiving with our hometown Christmas parade.  Greyson and I ran in the 2mile Santa Run that opened the parade with proceeds benefiting the Wings of Hope organization.  I'm so grateful we also ran with our cousins Heather and Albert too.  Albert was dressed up (head to toe!) as Buddy the elf and even handed out gifts on the last leg of the race to kids who were waiting for the parade to start!  Heather and Greyson ran ahead together (both of their first races!) and I was grateful to be able to hang back and jog slowly as an out-of-breath 10 weeks pregnant momma.  Grey ran the whole two miles (!) and I was so proud of him!


After the race, we stayed to watch the Johnstown Christmas parade.  Gemma walked alongside my Mom who was in the parade with Conemaugh Hospital and as my sister walked by with AUCP, she snatched up Violet and walked with her the rest of the way!  So both our girls got to join the parade!  Greyson and Caleb cheered and snatched up candy (and even got to hug the CV Bluejay!) before we all headed over to Central Park to see the inaugural lighting of our Central Park Christmas tree!  The tree lights up to music and was lit all season long downtown!  It was awesome and the kids were laughing and dancing.  It was really a citywide celebration!!  Small town living at it's very best!







Once we reached December, it was full on Christmas mode around here.  We had our cousin Gracie over before her and Grey's Miller's Martial Arts Karate Christmas Party, and I put the big kids to work on setting up our Christmas tree!  Then we all headed over to karate practice followed by the Christmas party while we enjoyed good food, good company, and the kids goofed around with their friends.




Marco the elf was back again this year and the kids were happy to see him again.  He got into some of his regular antics again like turning the milk green, and some new surprises too like making us elf-size pancakes!  He brings a little extra magic to the season and we love him.





As American mutts, we get the bonus of being able to celebrate lots of little extras throughout the season, like St. Nicholas Day.  The kids left their shoes out (Grey chose his muck boots!) and then St. Nicholas leaves candy in them on December 6th.  We had him visit a day early because mom has pregnancy brain (hahah!) but the kids didn't have any clue, so, no big deal.  



We had our annual Fioder Polar Express Party with our favorite friend Sophia and Charlie again this year.  Kate brought the kids over and they all had a picnic lunch of pizza, popcorn, and hot chocolate while they watch the Polar Express movie and then the mommas get to hang out and chat.  We found ourselves being so comfortable hanging out that we nearly forgot to take pictures of the get together at all!  Luckily, we snapped this quick pic right before it ended!


This year, for the first time, we headed out to Pittsburgh to have a 'Christmas in the city' with Aunt Kitty and Uncle Ryan.  We went out on Friday night and played with them and their pets, even taking their pup Lemon for a walk (look at no coats!  it was like a warm spring night in mid-December!)  We had a sleepover and then spent Saturday afternoon at a local playground, riding the T, and checking out the Wintergarten and ice rink at PPG downtown.

That afternoon, I sure had some cranky kids who didn't feel like walking or waiting...but we had a magical moment when Santa and Mrs. Claus came right over to us while they were skating on the rink and we got to chat for a minute and get our picture taken with them (the one and ONLY time this season we got a picture with Santa!  ugh, mom's pregnant and couldn't get it together, HAH).  Kayla and I swear it was because Violet's little ponytail is irresistible!








It is a long standing tradition with my Adams cousins to have a Christmas cookie baking day using our grandma's sugar cookie dough and boiled icing recipes; one of my absolute favorite traditions of the entire year!  But, Grey was so sick on the scheduled day (he was out sick from school for four days before the holiday break!) and so we had to pass on the event.  My sisters, mom and cousins kept the day and made the cookies together and then our family did it at home a few days later together.  We all participated in our annual cookie dough toast and cheers to our grandma though!

Being by myself with my three little ones trying to get them to roll out the dough, use the cookie cutters, use flour in the appropriate amount (ahem, Gemma), and then ice them gave me even more admiration and respect for my grandma who somehow did that with a whole group of her granddaughters and never once do I remember her getting frustrated!  She was a real live saint, because I was biting my tongue and praying to her for patience the entire time!!







After Christmas Eve mass, and dropping off cookies to our neighbors, we host a little party at our house for the grandparents.  It is another of my favorite parts of the season.  Everyone brings a little something to the meal and we all squeeze in around the table snacking and chatting.  We threw together some cookies and all sang Happy Birthday to Jesus while the adults (excluding the pregnant one, wah) toasted a shot for health and family for another year!

The kids get one gift to open (pajamas) and then we let them stay up a little bit while tracking Santa with NORAD to make sure we aren't going to risk missing him when he arrives in PA!  The kids chose their cookies and carrots for Santa and the reindeer, we all kissed Marco goodbye, and then left our magic 'Santa Key' on the outside of our front door since we don't have a fireplace for him to come in.








And then comes the big show:  Christmas morning.  This was the first year, since Grey's been alive, that he wasn't going to get what he asked for.  The only thing he wanted from Santa was a hamster...seriously, you guys.  Gemma also asked for a snow bunny (thanks Disney) and after some soul searching and a lot of mom guilt I finally resolved that there was just no way with two dogs and a cat that already try to literally kill each other, fourth baby pregnancy, and three kids that I was going to be able to also manage caring for a hamster.  It was a close one, but I resisted.

Santa left a note instead thanking the kids for taking great care of Marco and explaining that having a pet is a very big responsibility, and that he only brings live animals to kids that are old enough to be able to take care of them all on their own.  So, he instead brought some 'big kid' gifts that he will see if they can use and take care of them appropriately and if they can, he might consider live pets for future Christmases.  So, Christmas morning went on with joy and elation and all was well in the Studer house.






After our house, we had brunch at Gigi and Pappy's house - Mimi was there too! We opened gifts, enjoyed lunch (seriously, Studerbaby4 and I ate four ham sliders!) and celebrated, including another Happy Birthday Jesus cake!  After an Easy Bake Oven mishap, Gemma needed a wardrobe change from her Alice & Ames ballet dress into a dress-up bride costume, which she could not have been more pleased about!  Although, this was right about the time that her fever started to creep in, so we gave her some tylenol and told her to hang in there (as we still had two more stops left!) 





 Next was on to my Aunt Darlene's house for lunch with our Adams family.  We got to see our cousin Becca (home from training in FL with the US Navy!) and also get to spend time with our cousin Kara who was preparing to leave for Costa Rica for 6 months in the beginning of January to teach English!  (she's there now, here's her blog: http://brettandkarasticotimeline.blogspot.com/ )  We had great food and company and then a big surprise arrived as we were almost ready to leave when our cousin Michael came and announced that he and Johnna got engaged the night before!  In a house full of three aunts and eight girl cousins:  there was an absurd and hilarious amount of screams and squeals happening.


Becca
Michael and Johnna!


 Then it was off to Abba and Chum's house for dinner and an evening of gifts, weird games that Chum, Kitty, and Uch make up, and so much laughing.  We snacked on cookies, pizza, and chips while the kids ran around playing with gifts and teasing their aunts and uncles.  Grey received an air rocket from Aunt Uch and it transformed into a wild game of shooting it across the room and blowing air into unsuspecting faces.  It just would not stop being funny and so we just could not stop doing it.  Gem though was slowing going down hill and eventually both she and Violet fell asleep in my lap.  We got home around 9:30p that night and subsequently all fell fast, fast asleep.






The day after Christmas, we stopped by to visit with Taryn, Dobber, and baby Claire while they were in town for the holiday.  Gem still wasn't really on the mend, but it brightened her little spirit so  much to see Claire.  Then, it was quickly over to my Uncle Sam's annual Christmas Party with our Uzelac side of the family for an evening of A LOT of hugs, karaoke, and delicious food.  We are always happy to get a chance to see our cousins the Burghs at Uncle Sam's party.  But it was especially great this year to check in as Stef and I are both expecting in June this year!!  I am Stef's daughters godmom (Mallory) and Stef is godmomma to our Violet - plus, we've been friends for our whole lives and so having babies due in the same month this year feels magical and lucky <3 nbsp="" p="">



Stef and Tab

THEN, the next day (Sunday), we headed out to Mimi's house to celebrate Christmas with our Studer family!  We had delicious dinner and cookies to no end thanks to Mimi's amazing baking skills.  The kids opened gifts and Grey was thrilled to get to spend the day playing with their cousins Morgan, Ariel, and Grace.  Violet chased around and stole toys from cousins Lainey and Ben like a little bully, and all the while, our poor Gemma Rose was STILL sick - even throwing up (mostly mucous) right in the middle of the room during gift opening - I pulled a total Mom-Move and reached out and caught it in my hands and wrapping paper!

Bud headed off to basketball practice afterwards and I took the girls home to toss them into bed and get some rest myself.  Grey got to stay at Mimi's with Morgan to keep playing and he was so happy to spend time some extra time with her.




We took a few days off after that, just laying about and literally letting gifts lay around the house and not even caring whether or not the house looked like a disaster.  We got in some New Years Eve celebration with our besties Jon and Lindsay.  They came over to our place, we chowed down on hot dogs, pork, and sauerkraut that night, and we facetimed with all the family that we weren't celebrating with - including cousin Reid in Harrisburg who Grey was so happy to talk to!  Violet stayed up until about 10pm, Gemma made it to 11pm , and Grey beat both Linds and I and stayed awake with the boys until almost 2am!



 

We closed out the Christmas season by celebrating Orthodox Christmas on January 7, as we are lucky to have two sides of our celebrate the holiday.  Gigi has Russian Orthodox blood while my Mum and our Uzelac family have Serbian Orthodox heritage.  As tradition, the big kids get to 'camp out' under the Christmas tree on Orthodox Christmas eve and then they each receive one small gift from 'Orthodox Santa' that morning.

Later in the day, we headed over to my Uncle Rich's house to celebrate the holiday with our Uzelac family.  It was so great to see so many of the great uncles and aunts together (there were originally fourteen of them!) and know that my Grandma Irene was there in spirit (along with the other brothers and sisters who have passed on; Pete, Millie, Dino).  It was a beautiful evening and kind of the perfect ending to a very long, but blessed Christmas season.




The point of this post is really two-fold, first a blogger should not wait this long to talk about her holiday events to limit the size of her post...because SERIOUSLY, you guys.

Secondly, it is a busy and wild holiday season for us, there is no doubt.  but anytime that I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with all of plans and rushing about - I just remind myself that there is no place in this world for griping about having places to go where you are loved.

We are so very blessed to be able to celebrate in so many ways with so many people who love us.
Hoping your holiday season was filled with love, togetherness, and happiness.
xxox

Around Here Week One: 1/1-1/8

Friday, January 8, 2016

a weekly review of what it's like to live in our home right this second.










Intentional Hours outside to date:  1.5 hours (of 1000)
Between the cold temps this week and flat out decisions about doing something else instead during naptime, I didn't do so great for my outdoor hours.  Being open and sharing the truth though motivates me for next week (gulp!) I'm resolving to at least 'beat' my hours in the new week!

Reading Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert with our Inspired Readers book club and listening to Tell the Wolves I'm Home on audible while walking,  I'm really looking forward to choosing a book for bedtime reading, but I'm weirdly hesitant about it.  I just finished reading two WWII books back to back and I'm in need of something to read that's really light and fresh and maybe even a little cheesy after so much raw seriousness.  suggestions?

Smiling about my bump, it has officially 'popped' this week and is a constant reminder that I am actually pregnant with another bean.  With the three current kids and their needs, wants, and dramatics - half the time I don't even remember I'm pregnant (which certainly makes me feel like the worst mum ever) no 'outside' kicks yet (18 weeks) and so I'm feeling really guilty about missing all the 'internal' flutters unless I'm laying totally still and focusing.  (sorry baby).  The kids love hugging and talking to my bump too which makes me swoon eternally.  It feels like studerbaby4 is now a 'real' person in our family and I'm not the only one that's aware of his/her existence anymore.

Giggling about Brandon and Gemma.  those two.  He seriously looks at her with stars in his eyes and she is firmly in the 'my Dad is the very best in the whole world and I'm marrying him' stage.  They've been dancing together and I could just die.  She's convinced that when she marries Daddy then she gets to be the Mom and I said, 'well then what about me?!' and she said, as though it was the most obvious thing in the world, 'then you'll be the kid, Mom!  And if you're bad, I'll put YOU in timeout!"  While we were out to eat this week, an older man near us said, "that middle one is a Daddy's girl, huh?  She's sure going to break some hearts when she grows up!" to which Brandon responded, "Yeah, and I'll be the first!" I laughed but also almost cried.

Singing both the actual song and everything else I feel the need to say to the tune of the little school bus/alphabet magnet on our fridge that was a Christmas gift for Violet.  That melody is the soundtrack to my current life.

Sensing the onset of the 17 month mark for Violet.  At 17 months of age for both Greyson and Gemma it was a noticeable marker of the 'wild thing' stage, which lasts approximately from 17 months to about 3 and a half years old.  (hahahaha, at least for my first two, Gemma is just coming out of it now!) and I can sense it's coming with our 15 month old Violet Mary.  I'm half afraid she's going to be 'advanced' and get into wild thing stage early.  Her flair for the dramatic through fake pouting (head lowered with hands to her face!) and incredibly obvious 'stink eye' to anyone she is suspicious of (basically everyone) is already spiraling out of control.  She sure keeps the two big kids in hysterics about her silly little ways and they're starting to understand that she's turning into a real big kid like them and she's not just a little helpless/thoughtless baby anymore.

Procrastinating on a lot of random things that I know would make me feel better but we really just haven't gotten around to getting them down yet.  Like, January grocery shopping (!), meal planning for the month, or buying a new planner for myself for 2016.  I've been scraping the pantry and freezer for meals this week (but that's also kind of a blessing) and using the last little bit of my 2015 planner before going today (seriously! today!) to get a new one.  My parents have invited the kids over for a sleepover (thank you!) so I'm using up a pedicure gift certificate I've had for a year and then buying a new planner and grocery shopping today! I must resist the temptation to take a nap instead, hahha.

Grateful for my fourth pregnancy and the realization it brings me because I'm finally (fi.na.lly after three kids!) coming to terms with the fact that I can't control everything, nor juggle everything before it crashes to the ground.  You guys, seriously.  This has been a long motherhood journey in which I have been rearing up against life's chaos of parenting and berating myself for not being able to keep it all together perfectly.  And now, pregnant with number four and chasing three kids around, I'm finally getting it.  In this juggling routine, you really only have to catch the precious stuff (our kids, our marriage) and if you can throw a few extras (clean house, full meals, special events) into the juggle rotation occasionally then you're doing pretty freaking good.  Perfect example, this morning Grey and I both slept in later than we should and since he still had a homework page to finish before school, I was beginning to run around in a panic to try to not miss the bus and get him to get dressed and finish the homework and oh crap, where's that book he needs to return?!...and then my heart settled and said, 'yea, not worth the stress,' and so he finished the homework calmly and we had breakfast together and laughed together about boogies (gosh, boys) while we missed the bus.  Then I just drove him to school and that was it.  it wasn't a perfect morning, but then again, it kind of was.

Officially finishing the holiday season this week.  We keep decorations up all the way until Orthodox Christmas (January 7) as American mutts, we benefit from two sides of our extended families that celebrate the Orthodox calendar.  It makes the holiday good and long and by today (1/8) I am beyond ready to take down these decorations and tree, but in a grateful way that lasts all the way until December 1.  I like that we stretch the season so that there's no rush to jump into it later in the year and we can properly celebrate Halloween and Thanksgiving before going into Christmas mania.

Waiting, still, until the entire bus is out of view at the bus stop each morning.  I've been reflecting about this so far all school year that I just can't bring myself to drive away until the last bit of the bus has disappeared every morning.  It's a only a difference of a few seconds to wait while it pulls up the road after Grey hops aboard each morning, but it's enough of a wait that I recognize that I am, in fact, waiting.  He doesn't even turn to look out the window anymore to wave to me, but I can see his little head bounce-walking to his seat and saying hello to his friends.  And still I wait and watch, just in case.  I had a momma moment of solidarity today while dropping him off at actual school (since we missed the bus, see above) and the mom's car in front of me didn't pull away until her daughter was fully inside of the school's front door.  Grey was just getting to the front door as she pulled away and my car sat still until he too was fully inside the door, never once turning back.  It kind of feels like those teenage phone conversations that I used to say, "No, you hang up first."  Now as a momma - in more ways than allowing the bus to pull away first - I'm always silently whispering to these babes of mine, 'no, you hang up first, I'll wait in case at the last minute you need to know I'm still here.'


12 Months of Kindness 2015 Recap

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

We finished out our 7th year of 12 Months of Kindness in 2015.  It has truly become part of what our family does together.  It's incredible though how even after seven years, it is still so important to write it down and plan what we are going to do each month.  As the kids grow and our family grows (!) and we all become more involved in activities - it seems even more necessary than ever to make sure we have a plan already for what we'll do each month, otherwise, our acts of kindness would be too easily swallowed up in the regular fast-moving stream of family life.

In 2015, our plans for each month seemed to be the most aligned with what we reasonably could accomplish, as a family of five to three very young kids.  We re-aligned our original plan only in one month (November), changing up the goal with something that was a little easier to orchestrate between the holidays, kids, and expecting number studerbaby#4!



January: made a meal and dessert, delivered, and visited with a new mom friend after the arrival of her first baby
February:  anonymously paid for a meal of an elderly couple at a restaurant
March:  served a meal at the Winder Area Community Kitchen
April:  mailed a care package to our WorldVision sponsor child Raph in Democratic Republic of Congo
May:  7th year awarding our Studer Scholarship to two CV high school seniors based on their essays about their positive influence and contribution to the school and community.
June:  organized the 2nd annual CV Alumni Association 5K and family fun run
July:  organized and hosted the 7th annual Beer Olympics, fundraising for a family friend who's child is a cancer warrior.
August:  dropped of a donation of goods at our local Humane Society
September:  volunteered an evening packing weekend food bags for students in need with the Johnstown Backpack Project
October:  participated in Trick-Or-Treat for UNICEF as a family and with my 5th grade CCD class
November:  volunteered three hours to help a child in need at the Needy Children Shopping Tour where I helped the child select clothes, a winter coat, and other necessary items for the winter.
December:  volunteered as a family for 8 hours to ring the bell for the Salvation Army on #GivingTuesday

We were also lucky to join an amazing group this year that a dear friend and inspiration started for young families looking to give back.  It's called the Family Service Club (FSC) Johnstown.  Each month ideas and opportunities are posted that are family friendly to give back and act out in kindness.  Through the FSC-Johnstown this year, we helped pack hygiene kits for the Johnstown Backpack Project, donated extra Halloween trick-or-treating candy to servicemen and women abroad through Operation Gratitude, and were inspired to bake cookies and thank you notes for our local first responders. (Thank you Megan for organizing this group!)

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We are working now on compiling our 12 Months of Kindness 2016 list and will be sharing it by next week.  We are still in the planning phase though and would love to hear about any activities that you participated in this past year that might inspire this year's acts of kindness - please share!