Around Here Week 21: 05/17-23

Thursday, June 4, 2020

A glimpse into what it is like to live in our home just this moment (week 10 of the covid-19 quarantine - yellow phase!)














Intentional Outdoor Hours:  71+ hours (of 1000)
I'm up over 13 hours this week and finally starting to get into the temperatures that make it almost impossible to stay in the house because it's so beautiful outside. It was super windy though this week. The kids had fitted sheets outside on the trampoline holding them open to try to use them as parachutes (that's STEAM homeschooling, right?) 

Reading and finishing Opposite of Always by Justin A. Reynolds (a very sweet YA, but since I've already dug deep with time travel/multiverse stories like Dark Matter and The Time Traveler's Wife - this one left me kind of like, #meh). I'm still also reading Untamed by Glennon Doyle

Goat prepping. That included goat fence prepping, researching goat raising, and purchasing our first five goats! We have agreed to get no more than 8 (!) Our first five are two Alpines (1 year olds) and 3 doelings: 2 La Mancha and 1 Apine/Boer. We were so grateful to have my Dad (Chum) and Brandon's Dad (Pappy) come out this week to help work on the goat fence. Brandon tried to use a post hole drill, but our tractor wasn't big enough to man it - so it ended up being 18 post holes dug by hand and at least 60 T posts installed. Both Gemma and Greyson have put in hours down in the pasture to help get the fence up. 

Realizing some very sound love advice while watching Brandon put in the corner posts for our goat pen: Can I just say, ya'll need to get yourself a partner who will operate a two-man auger by themselves to build your dreams with their own hands. 

Shaking my head (and butt! hah) as Red's favorite song is Wiggle by Jason DeRulo. It's incredibly inappropriate - for real- wildly lewd lyrics. But the beat and hook are so catchy. The kids crack up every time it says "big fat butt" and then we hold Red out and swing his body gently back and forth like he knows what to do with his 'big, fat butt' and he is quiet and content. every time we play it and dance. I know....our parenting is inspirational....LOL.
 
Swinging in the trees on our new swings that Abba and Chum got for the kids. Abba asked me if we had any playground thoughts for our house and I shared with her some ideas. We aren't interested in a traditional style playground, but play pieces that can spark the kids imagination and lead into all sorts of play. Abba and Chum spent an afternoon at our house digging through feet of rock (I'm sorry!) to put in the posts for some chin up/flip bars too. (thank you mum & dad!)

Attending my senior students' high school graduation. Our staff and principal put together a beautiful, socially distant evening that allowed our seniors to have as much normalcy as possible for their graduation. We held it outdoors on the football field with social distance spacing, face masks, limited participants, and no lingering afterwards. The seniors came into the event via parade through town (I cried) and then proceeded through graduation complete with speeches from the val/sal and class VP (I cried again). So proud of our kids and can't wait to see all they'll do in life! I will be rooting for you - always! 

Visiting Abba & Chum's house for the afternoon while Brandon worked at High Ridge hunting preserve as a guide all day. The kids were grateful to spend time playing in a new setting (because after 10 weeks of isolation, our house is SO BORING we have NOTHING TO DO and NO FUN TOYS...ya feel me, parents?) I was happy to spend the afternoon not making any meals, not cleaning up after anyone, and having adult conversations with my parents and my aunt Lisa (their next door neighbor!)

Homeschooling with a new and the last (!) packet of the school year. I am not going to lie - kids are OVER IT. (#same) and I'm struggling with getting them to sit down and work on it because I see how much natural learning is going on everyday. Grey has been asking such inquisitive questions ("if I shot my bow under water, how do you figure out how far it would go, ya know because it won't go as far as on land, right? what about in space?") They are baking and building the goat fence and building little dams in creeks and finding animal tracks in the woods. It's really hard to justify in my mind when they are so naturally curious and tackling learning on their own at home to then force them to sit down and do worksheets. It just feels like the place to learn naturally is at home and the place for worksheets and direct instruction is at school and we're getting through it but as always; I love and need you teachers. We miss you so much! 

Virtual Teaching for the last full week of the year. I offer my students an opportunity called Leave Me Alone Passes all year and usually they are meant to be earned to be exempt from the final. Since I couldn't ensure that a final given virtually would be secure - I offered the students an opportunity to use their earned LMA passes to be exempt from the last week of school work. Many of my students had earned enough and had a week free of work (!). Anyone else read a story about an alien on a mission and answered comprehension questions each day. 

Making lots of food for lots of hungry kids. 
breakfasts: banana bread, pancakes, homemade naan (my first time!) and berries, egg sausage casserole chocolate croissants, and breakfast quesadillas
lunches: lunchmeat sandwiches, chicken nuggets, salads, frozen pizza, leftovers, lasagna (delivered from our dear friends and preschool teachers Miss Kayla & Miss Janell - thank you so so much!!), and hot dogs
dinners: crock pot country-style porkchops, buffalo chicken dip, chili cheese dog bubble up casserole, crack chicken sandwiches, pizza (twice!)

Blog everyday in June

Monday, June 1, 2020

To write everyday was a goal I had set for the month of May when I created my 100 small things list for the year. But apparently, I drastically overestimated my ability to recover from a c-section, take care of an infant, homeschool our two big kids, teach my students virtually, and have all five kids home everyday during a pandemic..

But the summer has arrived (for me today! and for the two big kids on Thursday!) 
So I'm going to go for it!

Writing for me gets all the floating ideas out of my head and into clear, semi-organized sense. It pushes me to be creative. I helps me feel less distracted. It is my favorite outlet for creativity. It brings settled peace to my heart that often times feels too much and tugs too deep. 


I have some thoughts on what I will blog about, some ideas which have been in my drafts for too long and some things that have just been on my mind recently. And I created a blogging calendar to  map out some thoughts on what I will be writing each day to keep me focused and organized. Some of the topics I'm thinking about include
  • four kids' birthday posts (!)
  • Around Here posts (to keep current)
  • Studerbabies farm update
  • intentional personal growth series
  • lessons learned from five kids and 10 years of mom'ing
  • list of ways to support moms with new babies
  • school year recap 
  • limit setting for kids
  • outdoor hours
I'll also happily take suggestions!

So I hope to write
even if it's just a little tiny something
even if it seems like one more thing I have to add to my plate
even if I feel like I have nothing to say
even if all five kids are making me crazy
even if the goats have jumped the fence (hah, yeah - we'll get to that story)
I'm going to write something each day. 

I'd love to blog/write along with you if you need some motivation to get that paper to pen or those fingers to keyboard! It's always easier to finish a challenge if you have a buddy.